That song was the trigger that made me realise I had given away the power
to be in control of my own life. It happened slowly, over a period of fourteen years with just a little sign here and another there. One month not being very different from the next, but one year getting worse than the one before! Ultimately (and thank God!) we went our separate ways.
That catastrophic relationship taught me many lessons about life and myself.
By taking those lessons, I learnt that self-esteem, inner-strength, loving and accepting ourselves are the key to powerful relationships and a balanced life.
I took those lessons and developed my signature system to help others overcome their challenges and help them fast-track their lives to what they want it to be.
Today, I am happily married to a really wonderful man with four beautiful children and ... strong self esteem.
While many people think self esteem is all about having the right job, the right boy/girlfriend, or living in the right neighborhood, self-esteem is about who we are, our belief in ourselves and what we can achieve. Self-Esteem determines the quality of our relationships, and the way we interact with ourselves, creating peace, calmness, balance and power from within.
It took me a long time to understand that our real strength comes from inside, that we always have a choice, no matter how difficult the circumstances may be, because how you think determines how you feel which determines how you behave, how others see you and how you allow others to treat you!
I know now that my journey uniquely prepared and qualified me to lead people through the difficulties they face. I know first hand that life has it’s challenges, but I also know that we each have an inner strength to overcome those challenges, and sometimes we just need a little help along the way to help us realise that strength and take the steps we need to take to live the life we really want to live.
At a very young age - way before I should have, I fell in love with Mr Wonderful. Unfortunately, Mr Wonderful turned out to be jealous, abusive, possessive and controlling. No matter how hard I tried, there was nothing I could do to make things better and everything was always my fault. I ended up feeling hurt, frustrated, worthless and depressed. I had lost my passion and purpose in life, lost my self-esteem and was constantly trying to please him and forgot about myself and who I was.
“I get knocked down but I get up again, aint nothin gonna keep me down”
Thanks for your interest in learning more about me and how I can help you.
This is my story ... in brief!!
One day, driving along on my way to work, the song “I get knocked down but I get up again, aint nothin gonna keep me down” came onto the radio, and I thought to myself:
What are your dreams and your challenges?
Is your poor self-esteem and your lack of belief in yourself holding you back and limiting your life?
Are you in an abusive or difficult relationship or marriage?
Are you having difficulties communicating with your partner, teen,
or other family member?
You dont need to suffer on your own for years before finding solutions. If you can see the signs, I can fast track you to live the life you want to live!